Personal Dating Coach & Image Consultant
Personal Dating Coach & Image Consultant
Dating Decoded
I’m Gloria Arteaga, Your Personal Dating Coach
Navigating the dating scene in Washington, DC can be complex, with its focus on professional development, networking, and, often, politics. It’s easy to get caught up in these aspects of life, but sometimes it’s important to take a step back and redirect our attention toward what truly matters: meaningful relationships, family, and genuine human connections.
At Dating Decoded, I help professional singles in the DC area navigate the complexities of dating, moving beyond the transactional nature of professional life to cultivate authentic connections. Whether you’re experienced but seeking deeper, more fulfilling relationships, or new to dating and unsure where to start, I provide personalized coaching to help you develop a strategy that aligns with your unique values and goals.
Schedule your FREE initial consultation today and take the first step toward building deeper, more meaningful connections.
Dating Decoded Services
Dating Skills Coaching
If you’re meeting new singles on a regular basis, but aren’t getting as many yeses as you’d like, I recommend dating skills coaching. I will help you hone your dating skills so that you can build deeper, longer-lasting connections.
Dating Strategy Coaching
Develop and implement a dating strategy that lets you relax and focus on connecting with love interests.
Mock Dating
Mock date sessions start with a 1-hour “date” at a local cafe or bar. Showcase your best dating self to me or an actor, who will play the part of the blind date. We’ll grab drinks, talk, and flirt – just about everything you would do on a usual date.
Image & Style Consulting
This service is bespoke to a clients needs and can include a wardrobe make-over or outfit shopping for an upcoming date.
Dating Rediscovered
This service is for individuals within an existing relationship where a little coaching can bring back some spice to the couple’s life that may have become mundane.
I coach 1-on-1 or as a couple session.
Online Dating
Life gets hectic, and the last thing you want is a second job building the perfect online dating profile. So I am here to help.
Dating Coaching helps decode areas like…

Communication
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Effective communication is the cornerstone of every successful relationship. But did you know it’s not just about what you say? Non-verbal cues—such as body language, posture, and eye contact—along with tone and timing, play a crucial role in how your message is perceived. I will guide you in honing your ability to articulate your thoughts with clarity, actively listen, and leverage body language to project confidence and approachability. Together, we will enhance your communication skills, enabling you to build trust, cultivate meaningful connections, and foster a deeper understanding with potential partners.

Attraction
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Attraction goes beyond physical appearance—it’s about creating a magnetic connection that draws people to you. I’ll teach you how to tap into the four categories of attraction: physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual. By understanding what truly draws people in, you’ll become more intentional in how you present yourself and engage with others, laying the foundation for meaningful relationships.

Confidence
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Confidence isn’t just about looking good; it’s about feeling good and showing up authentically. If you’re struggling with self-doubt or fear of rejection, I’ll help you break through those barriers. Together, we’ll uncover your strengths, redefine how you see yourself, and build the self-assurance needed to date with purpose and clarity. By the end of our sessions, you won’t just feel confident—you’ll radiate it.

Appearance
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Your appearance is your first introduction before you even say a word. It’s not about changing who you are but about amplifying your best features. I’ll help you create a style that aligns with your personality, flatters your body type, and feels authentic. You’ll learn how to dress with intention, showing the world—and your potential matches—the best version of yourself.

Becoming Intentional
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In today’s dating world, many treat relationships as a casual pursuit—focused on fun, chasing instant gratification, and surface-level connections, losing sight of the deeper purpose behind dating. Dating wasn’t created to be a game—it’s a journey to find a life partner, someone who shares your values and vision for the future. Dating with intention means understanding your values, knowing what you truly want, staying committed to your long-term goals. If you’ve spent years dating the wrong people, investing time and energy into relationships that lead nowhere, it’s time to break the cycle! Every moment spent with a time-waster is a moment you’ll never get back, blocking you from meeting the person you’re truly meant to be with. I’ll help you stop wasting precious time on those who aren’t serious, guiding you toward meaningful connections that align with your goals. Dating with intention means understanding what you want, staying true to yourself, protecting your heart from relationships that won’t serve you. Together, we’ll clarify your relationship goals, set healthy boundaries, and approach dating with purpose and clarity. You don’t have to keep settling for superficial connections that leave you feeling empty. With my guidance, you’ll learn how to attract the right people, build real, fulfilling relationships, and create lasting love and marriage you deserve.

Conduct
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How you carry yourself during the dating process can make or break a connection. From the way you greet someone on a first date to how you navigate boundaries as the relationship progresses, your conduct speaks volumes. I’ll guide you on how to approach each stage of dating with grace, respect, and intentionality—ensuring you always leave a positive and lasting impression.

Flirting
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Flirting doesn’t have to feel awkward or forced—it’s simply about being playful and confident while expressing interest. I’ll teach you how to flirt authentically, whether it’s through humor, body language, or thoughtful compliments. Flirting is a skill that opens doors, builds attraction, and makes dating fun again. By mastering this art, you’ll not only attract better matches but enjoy the process along the way.

Energy
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Energy is everything—it’s the invisible force that others pick up on before you even speak. If you’ve been attracting the wrong kind of partners or feeling drained by dating, it may be time to shift your energy. I’ll help you identify the type of energy you’re putting out and show you how to transform it into something magnetic and intentional. By aligning your energy with your goals, you’ll start attracting the kind of relationships you truly deserve.
FREE Consultation and Beyond
How it Works
The initial part of the process is to complete the online registration form below. This form is completely confidential and will be used as the starting point for our initial free consultation.
For our sessions to be successful, it is important that you answer each question truthfully. This will help me understand which areas we need to focus on.
Click the ‘SUBMIT’ button upon completion.
I will get in touch via email to arrange your initial free 30-minute phone consultation where we can speak about your expectations, what you are hoping to gain out of our coaching sessions, and answer any questions you may have about the coaching process.
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